I was four years old when I led my first person to Christ. I know I was four because I couldn’t read yet (I explained the gospel by offering commentary on the Jesus pictures in my Children’s Bible), and she wasn’t in diapers, though she was younger than me. That was a very narrow window of time.
I asked her if she believed that Jesus died to take away her sins. She said she did.
I asked her if she wanted to ask Jesus into her heart. She said she did.
I led her in a simple prayer, and that was it.
Right?
For years I believed it was–that a Christian was someone who had prayed The Sinner’s Prayer. Of course you were SUPPOSED to invest more in your relationship with God than that, but as long as you had prayed the magic prayer, you were good. Raised in Youth for Christ and educated by missionaries, I came by this understanding honestly.
Now, I think there’s more too it than that. Not because there has to be (following Jesus is, at its core, quite simple), and not because I get peeved about “cheap grace” (is there such a thing? The phrase makes me feel slightly ill), but because I believe being a follower of Christ has more to do with the orientation of a person’s heart than their declaration of belief.
You can believe without following. You can’t follow without believing on some level, but you CAN follow without completely understanding. (Luckily for us imperfect humans.)
Take Abraham. He had no Bible. He had no religious tradition (beyond the pagan one he left). He knew almost nothing about God, by our standards. But he knew God. And he embraced and took action on what God, in God’s mercy, wisdom, and goodness, revealed to him.
He had faith, and he followed. And it was credited to him as righteousness. (Romans 4)
At the core, I believe that is what God wants from us.
Simple. But not easy.
Soteriology vs. Theology
Let’s be honest. A lot of times when we’re debating theology, it’s actually soteriology, or salvation, that’s on our mind. We want to know if this person who disagrees with us is “right enough” to go to heaven. If they will pass their spiritual SAT’s and be admitted into a good afterlife.
I honestly remember hearing a radio program when I was a little girl explaining why Lutherans aren’t Christians.
I also remember the first time someone told me I wasn’t a Christian. There were “evangelists” lining the street corners during Youth For Christ’s DC ’94 event, explaining that even if you believed in Jesus and trusted him as your Lord and Savior, if you hadn’t been baptized, you weren’t a Christian. (They weren’t affiliated with YFC, obviously.) I was shocked, offended, and (since I wasn’t baptized until I was 21) distinctly uncomfortable.
But does doctrine (or external signs of faith) save us?
Sound Doctrine According to John
1 John talks a lot about false teaching, false teachers, and salvation. Amazingly, it says very little about doctrine.
John’s basic perameters for whether a person is echoing God’s truth are:
-They affirm that God is good, that in him there is no darkness.
-They affirm that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, sent from God.
-They affirm that Jesus took on flesh–that he became an actual human being.
-They accept fact that God gives us eternal life, and this life is in the Son.
Pretty basic, right? John is obviously countering Gnosticism, the great heresy of his day. But even in the face of false teachers, he is keeping things simple. He refuses to give into the temptation of setting up rules and regulations, of drawing unneccessary boundaries to keep his beloved flock safe, like the Pharisees of his youth.
No, John doesn’t talk a lot about doctrine. But he does talk a lot about abiding.
Seriously. I counted, and came up with at least 29 times the word “abide” (or variations therof) were used in this tiny book. “Abiding” is of primary importance, not only for “nurturing your spiritual life” or “drawing you closer to Jesus,” but in assuring you of your salvation and learning and safeguarding good doctrine!
According to John, being a Christian isn’t so much about what you say you believe–about praying the Sinner’s Prayer or affirming the Apostles Creed, as good and important as those things are. It is about abiding in Christ.
According to Paul, Abraham wasn’t justified by the law–by the information he possessed about God, or his adherence to religious regulations. He was justified by trusting God–by believing and acting on the (very limited) revelation God gave him. Abraham didn’t know much. But the dude abides.
Relying on Religion?
Let’s turn the tables for a minute.
We are unbelievably blessed. We have the Bible in written form–in our personal houses! We have access to all sorts of resources that help us understand it better. Most of us (over age 4, at least) are literate, and can read it for ourselves.
We should take full advantage of these unprecedented blessings, and steward them wisely. But we should do it with a good dose of humility, remembering that historically speaking, this puts us in an extreme, privileged minority.
It’s great that we know so much ABOUT God. But is it possible that at times we rely too much on our knowledge to save us? Is it possible that God’s primary concern is not how well our puny human brains comprehend his mysteries, but whether or not we are willing to abide in him? (Because goodness knows, we poor scattered sheep can’t make it on our own!) Is it possible that we could be intellectual Christians without being abiding Christians?
I, for one, think it’s a distinct possibility.
But what do you think?
How are we, or are we not, abiding in Christ? And what would it look like if we did?
(Note: I am a little nervous publishing this post, because I think there’s room for misunderstanding. This is not my most eloquent work, and it would take a lot more words to give the topic fair treatment. But still, I think these are important things to talk about! So let’s talk!)





Don’t be nervous about this post, Jen, because it’s AWESOME! You are so right that our relationship with Christ is not based on getting the words or sequence of actions or catechisms right. Our hope of glory is Christ in us (Col. 1:27), and that’s it. It is only by that relationship that we are then able to understand – and live in – right doctrine. (1 Cor. 2:10-14.)
I’m glad you got us into 1 John, too. Don’t you love the last line of the letter? “Dear children, keep yourselves from idols.” Where did that come from? I think it fits when you consider that everything he’s been writing about are things that either build us up in a relationship with God or keep us from that relationship, and everything (everything? hmm) that gets in between us and God is an idol of sorts.
Good job, Jen.
Tim
P.S. Ellen Painter Dollar just posted a guest piece I did (linked through my name above) as part of a week-long series she’s doing on money. Hope you – and others here! – get a chance to see it and let me know what you think.
Thanks Tim! “It is only by that relationship that we are then able to understand–and live in–right doctrine.” So true–and so under-emphasized!
Fr. Larry Richards gave a talk where he said just this, we can study for years and know all about our religion and all about Jesus but if we don’t spend time with Him we will never really know him. Fr. Larry suggested reading the Bible, prayer and Eucharistic Adoration. As a Catholic I believe that Jesus is present body, blood, soul and divinity in the Eucharist which is reserved in the tabernacles of our churches. So every Thursday I go and visit Jesus for an hour or so just to pray and talk with him and occasionally I can actually feel his love for me. The joy and comfort at those times is indescribable. Pretty Awesome! Getting to know Jesus has been and still is a very long process for me and lots of “stuff” gets in the way but I keep trying…
That sounds lovely, Beth. I wish more churches had a quiet place where we could just go and pray and sit in God’s presence for a while. Of course you can do it at home, but there are SO many distractions! I think part of the beauty of tradition is that it can quiet and prepare your mind and heart, and provides a soothing structure. I’ve JUST been learning about (and sometimes reading) prayers from prayerbooks–and I love it! I was always taught to just talk to Jesus, but sometimes, I run out of things to talk about, and my babble is less than edifying, LOL! So I’ve liked having scripturally-based prayers to read, saying the Lord’s Prayer, following a structure, etc. It really helps to quiet and focus my mind.
Yes, sometimes I feel like I have to fill up the quiet space with babble but then I remember I’m there to ADORE. In times of trouble or stress reading prayers or having some prayers memorized are a great comfort, for some reason they calm my buzy mind. I also forgot to mention that I have found in the last several years the more I read the Bible the more I want to read it and many nights that contemporary novel that I thought I wanted to read comes in second to the word of God.